Love yourself first?
Self-help programs of all flavors stress often, very often in fact, that we need to love ourselves first. It tends to be an overwhelming mantra that can, and often does, spirals towards ultimate selfishness. They say that if you do not love yourself first then you will not be able to take care of yourself and then you will not be able to love others. They really do emphasize self love in their attempts to help motivate people and while it seems to make sense, God's word s